I miss my Gundams.

It’s… been a rough, eventful couple of weeks.

Qualicum was bittersweet, in the best possible way, I would suppose. The second the car stopped, we ran into the person I wanted to see the least of anyone in the world. Apparently he was coming up because it was his girlfriend’s birthday. I was just annoyed with the timing.

Otherwise it was wonderful. It was interesting to see how different some of my friends looked, and it was incredibly refreshing to have the nerdy debates again… It was wonderful. We didn’t talk about anything incredibly vast, just the same nonsense we usually do. Video games, anime, whether Goku could defeat Cloud in a fight or not. We told story after story about the days of high school, and all the shit we got into.

And it makes me miss it.

I don’t do enough immature, risky things down here. I generally don’t get into trouble with citizens like I used to, and when I do, it isn’t fun. I miss adventuring. Not incredible expeditions of a Legend of Zelda feel, but random acts. Getting a call at 11 in the morning saying “We’re running around Nanaimo, come catch the bus.” If we didn’t make it, no big deal. If we did, we went around and did dumb things. You’d be surprised how much enjoyment you get from a two dollar water gun, or a couple logs and a junkyard.

My leg was bad then, and it got worse when I went up. I bought a cane, and it’s actually rather classy. I stopped using it today, because I finally healed enough not to need to limp (though I am a little still), but it was necessary for the time being. My body, however, isn’t holding its own, and I think that means I need to make some serious lifestyle changes.

I saw the shrink today about that too. We analyzed the stress I’m receiving from my illness and interactions. I never felt that people understood, but at least they tried. It’s when people don’t bother to attempt to understand what’s happening to me that I become stressed out. I get caught between thinking if I wanted to, I could do it, and knowing that it would only worsen my condition. In that regard, I never know my limits.

When I talked to her about this, she asked about my career history. She asked why I’m seeking so much grunt work. I didn’t really have an answer. I like to keep moving; keep busy, but that’s hardly an excuse, I think. I think this means that Nursing is out of the question. I need to prepare myself for a career that can still be maintained even if my body goes under. Something that requires more mind, less movement.

The situation at work for me has grown tense, and my anxiety’s been hard to cope with. They put me back on cyclosporine at my own request to avoid prednisone again, but cyclosporine and the welbutrin don’t mix. I dropped the welbutrin quickly. I wasn’t supposed to. I went into work with full signs of withdrawal, and am still combating it to some degree, though significantly less. I couldn’t cool down, and I was panicked. I still can’t think straight. It’s been a trying period.

Going back on the cyclosporine also puts my kidneys back at risks. I’ve been getting blood work and other tests all week long to monitor the creatinine in my kidneys so that they don’t shutdown. If they do, I’ll need immediate dialysis. If this happens and I’m lucky, my kidneys will reboot. If I’m not, they’ll be permanently shutdown. If I don’t take the cyclosporine though, I either attempt prednisone and bloat up and lose all control of rationality and proper thinking, or I go without and let my body destroy itself all over. My leg may be on the mend, but the damage has been done.

So I’ve not been thinking right. I don’t know what I should blame, or if I should place the blame on anything. Was it the withdrawal? The lack of proper sleep? Was it not having medication to control my anxiety? Was I just thoughtless? Regardless, I got in a lot of trouble at work, and it has been bothering me. I’ve been bumped down to one shift a week, which, though that carries immense positive results, it still irks me. If this is my only source of income, then it won’t be enough to sustain me lest it change. But after this, my thoughts of wanting to quit has come back. I mean, it’s a dollar store, and I was enjoying the job because of the people and the environment. If the people and the environment are starting to feel venomous, what benefit of is it to me to stick around if there are other ventures to exploit?

The benefits to working one day a week are phenomenal though, and I do need to focus on this to avoid negative thinking. I actually felt kind of good about it. 6 days off sounds very nice. I feel like my hand has been forced as well, which I needed. I haven’t been writing, but when my Grandparents came to pick me up, I started again. Now if I’m finding physical work to be too much, it’s become inspiration to seek new career paths that I can continue should my body cease to work. It feels like I’ve been pushed to get to work, and to get published.

My sister and I also played around with the idea of an eBay business a while ago. I was doing it playfully. Yesterday when I found my schedule, I felt like that became a seductive choice as well. In fact, it may be the best short-term income I can do. Problem is finding a product though. I want to be more original than following my friend’s lead in selling shark jaws, but I’m also trapped for ideas. My therapist promoted this idea immensely saying ‘the easiest way to make money is to think outside the box’. She said if my body can’t compete with others, then I can exceed them in creativity. Now it’s just a matter of finding a readily available resource to make money on. Quite intriguing really.

Yesterday I felt guilty that I was disappointing people. After I talked to the therapist, I stopped caring. In fact, I feel selfish about it because I feel fuckin’ great that I don’t have to worry about it right now. I don’t think I can be more apathetic to the job, but after feeling like it was my morally indignant responsibility to improve the store, it’s highly welcomed. Maybe I just need new meds.

The last few days though, they’ve been wonderful in retrospect. I bought the DLC’s for Fallout 3 and started a new file. Bloody hell it’s fun, but the DLCs didn’t work immediately, so I made some poor talent choices. I’m not sure if it’s worth making ANOTHER new character for or not, considering I’ve invested another 40 hours into this one, but it’s been a blast, and I’ve only touched Operation: Anchorage, which, I must say, I was a little disappointed in. I’m all for Arctic combat, but I don’t play Fallout for the combat or the gore. I play it for the environment. If you’re not worrying about some Super Mutant with a fire hydrant trying to swat you, or trying not to make your piss glow from hanging around nuclear waste, it kind of winds up becoming another half-assed shooter, which, Bethesda doesn’t exactly have fluid-friendly controls for. However, at the risk of sounding like an obsessive gamer, the Gauss rifle and Chinese Stealth Armour has convinced me that the DLC was worth it. Every time that I crouch, I go invisible, and every time I fire the rifle, I get the satisfying little “ping” as it rips someone’s skull off and sends the body five yards flying. Magnificent. Worth every penny.

I guess this forced vacation’s kind of cool after all.

*Grumbles*

I’ve been frustrated the past while.

I believe it started when I got back from the therapist. I don’t think she helped. Actually, I felt more patronized and aggravated then before.

She speaks of being content with the person you are in the now. I speak of enjoying the now, and working towards the future. She becomes frustrated, because working towards a personality-driven goal instigates pursuit of the ideal self. I don’t see the harm in liking the person you are, but holding the idealized self as a goal you never intend to reach.

If I could be my idealized self, I would be able to shoot fucking laser beams from my palms and become the hero of humanity, and probably not waste my time in a therapist's office.

Superman, Goku, and Sarah Palin could fucking suck it.

Today, I went to work to volunteer. Not because I wanted to, but to absolve my own guilt. Or to prove something. I’m not entirely sure. Last weekend was a disaster, and I was in charge. People didn’t do their jobs. Money went missing. Things were placed in the wrong spot, slacked off, boxes unchecked and unpriced. That’s just the top of it. I took responsibility for the things that I knew I did wrong. I didn’t realize at the time, that being in charge meant you took responsibility for other’s mistakes too however.

Needless to say, I was, and am still not pleased. I’m in charge again this weekend. I’m going to make it different.

But today, I went in, and I felt the strongest, most clear signal I’ve had in a job. No fuzziness. No confusion. I wanted to quit. I wanted to never, ever work there again. Not because I was inadequate, because I’m not, but because I simply didn’t want to put up with the shit anymore. I’m not going to be hardcore-worker-extraordinaire every bloody day. Somedays, I’mma gonna be lazy. I guess the expectations may be getting to me a little.

Still, I couldn’t believe how much I wanted to quit today. It was painful.

Went to see Joseph and the Amazing Technicoloured Dreamcoat today though. Very happy with it. It's resparked an interested in live theatre. I think I’m going to stalk actual theatres to see if they’re going to have any plays I’d enjoy going. I wouldn’t mind seeing a real production of anything Andrew Lloyd Webber does. I’d probably pay through the nose for it too.

I need to eat more. Calorie counting is nooot a friend of mine. I’m barely hitting 1000 a day.

Either way, tomorrow will be a good day. Sushi and booze!

Parenthood

I’m very aware right now that I write blogs that don’t have the nicest tunes to them. So for that, I apologize. I think I’m just going to keep writing where I am in life when it comes at me.

No pictures today.

I’m severely divided whether I like therapy or not. I feel better, sometimes, once it’s done. It’s as though I found answers – like someone said just enough to make everything from your past and present click and ignite in some fiery blast of brain chemistry.

Other days, I’m broken.

I hate losing people. I hate being discarded. I didn’t really focus much on it until we started talking about it. This weekend, I asked a friend if I was disposable, because it was… unsettling to me to think that I was. I’ve always wondered what was worth fighting for. What’s worth risking for. Striving. War. What has meaning?

I’ve been the one to fall one broken knees, and turn that hurt into motivation. To strive for improvement. To get stronger. Better. I’ve always wanted to be something unmatchable. Something successful. I’ve wanted to prove, that even though I’ve taken my blows, I could still throw down with the rest of them.

I’ve turned my greatest weaknesses on their heels, just to pull myself out of my hole. Recent months, it’s been harder. Circumstances don’t work in my favour. Sometimes it’s not what’s inside that can be improved. Sometimes it’s external.

I let her know that nothing in my life is bad, persay. Nothing was wrong, and that was the truth. I told her that it felt like I had no passion. I have no motivation, or drive. I’m existing, not living. I can go day-by-day, but it’s without meaning. I told her I didn’t want that to be my life, which is why I came to her in the first place.

She asked me what brought meaning to my life. I didn’t have much to answer with. She wanted to know why. I wrote her a litany.

You don’t get strong from being in a hospital, or broken down. I hated people telling me I’d be alright. I hated hearing that everything would be over soon, and that I’d be healed. I hated it, because it was the most… arrogant, naïve thing a person can say to someone. They had no idea. I told her all of that. I told her you weren’t given the option to be brave. You either develop a headstrong desire to conquer your next challenge, or you give up and die. You don’t get an in-between.

My leg’s gotten a lot worse. I’ll have permanent scarring. I told her that this is something I live with each and every day. I don’t even factor it in when someone asks me how I’m doing anymore. You just get used to it.

She wanted to talk about my childhood, so we did. She wanted to know almost everything there was to figure out. So I answered her bluntly.

She asked me if I loved myself.

I almost laughed at her. I like who I am. Enough so that I’m not the kind to change for others. I said I just wanted to be the best of me.

She brought her hands apart and said that they both represent a scale. The left is me in my peek: the charismatic, the happy, the satisfied. The meaningful side of me. She said that this side is how I think I should be.

She raised her other hand, and said this is me at my worst. She said that I’m not able to handle anything but the best. That I hit depression when I fall from that grace. That I’m dreaming of being that ideal person, and I’m not able to accept that I might not be there.

She said it comes because I don’t know what it’s like to be loved unconditionally.

I cried. I just… had to. Finally. A few tears, here and there, haven’t been what I needed.

She said children who receive love when they’re exhibiting certain traits learn only that they have to be those traits to be loved. She said that it sets a child to expect themselves to be this person if they want to be loved, or accepted. She said that inside, I’m ignoring that part of me that just wants to find that acceptance.

And everything just clicked in my head. One united, brilliant flash. Then nothing.

She said the difference here is that I ignore the voice, and work overtime with my mind to protect myself. I don’t parent myself. I don’t treat myself with that unconditional love, unless I’m hitting that peek. Odd… description.

She said I’m burning myself out. My… child, thing. It’s sitting inside and screaming, because it keeps losing people it’s trying to trust. People that leave. People I make leave. She says that looking for love is fine. She actually was the first person to say I’m not making a mistake in doing so. She complimented me for it. But she said if that’s the only place I find unconditional love, then I will falter as I’ve done. As I do.

She told me that I need to be the parent to my child. I need to provide for myself, the love that I want from others. And… I’ve been confused. I don’t know what that’s supposed to mean… but I feel like I’ve lost my urge to fight…

She said I’m pushing myself, to be something I don’t have to be to be loved… and that I need to love myself even when I don’t hit that pinnacle. And I feel like I don’t need to fight. My child cries, and I don’t know how to show it love.

How does one become their own parent?

Gundam Review #1

This was actually the inspiration behind me getting a blog in the first place.

Ooo bubbles.

Two Gundams arrived today, bound by familiar green wrapping paper and scribbles I don't dare to translate. Basically, I got new toys.

First up is called the Strike Noir. It's from a small promo from Gundam SEED. This is my second time buying it now; the first being in AE as a present for my ex, since she gave me one of my own. I let her have them both, but I always missed the Noir. So my little sister got me this.


The Strike Noir has ridiculous flexibility, which is one of the reasons I wanted it again (other than the fact it has little handguns >>). Plus, it's just plain badass.


No, really, it's awesome.

I don't really have much to say for review standards, because I know it's subpar to the Damashii series they're releasing now, and I'm a little tainted from it. But as far as its predecessors go, this thing is very pleasing, especially for armament. If I had to complain, I'd say that you simply can't balance this thing easily. It's very, very top heavy, and takes a lot of manuevering to stand right.

If I had a stand, this toy would be my favourite.

Next is Nadleeh, the "femme" version of Virtue.

I don't really understand why she has white shoes when Virtue has red... or why her penis is bigger than his.

Again, there's not a whole lot I'm able to review here, because I'm very biased due to the new Damashii line. However, I wasn't all too impressed. Actually, in honesty, I was pretty upset with it. It's a neat toy, if you're a collector, or you like to relive the anime scenes. Then it's fine. But if you're like me, and see them as toys to be, y'know, played with, it falls short. The gun is really under-detailed, and doesn't feel like it was made from quality plastic. The suit is also pretty stiff, thus why I've only taken pictures of Nadleeh in one pose. Honestly, she'd either fall over, or fall apart otherwise..

I wanted to make an over-compensator joke here, but I don't think it's valid...

The Virtue's cannons confused me as to why there were added to the toy when I first saw it. Nadleeh uses them for all of 3 seconds in the anime. Now I know why. This is a toy only for people who collect. It falls apart like a house of cards. I grabbed my Virtue and compared, and it's not even the same plastic. And the hair? It does NOT stay on. Whomever says otherwise is lying. Nadleeh fired each piece off from her head when I removed her from her box. I've been wrestling trying to keep them in place, but she's a dyke.

I hate to say that I like the look of the suit more this way.

It's a little disheartening, considering how interesting she was in the anime. The shield is my favourite part, and that frustrates me. I wouldn't recommend personally, unless you intend to shelf her for life, or have a LOT of krazy glue and don't care about the hair.

Without exaggeration, I spent 13 minutes trying to keep the hair on just for this pose, and it's not even that interesting...

Nadleeh does make the Virtue look pretty cool though, so it's worth it for that factor. Hopefully I'll get my hands on a Damashii piece to have some fun with later.

I just wanted to take pictures, lol

Waiting On A Sign

There’s been a ghost in my apartment for the last little while. She’s female. Five-foot four. Long, straight hair that reached the swell of her back. I’ve caught her dart across the room once. She’s terrified of being in the same room as me, and if she is, she always stands just behind me. Every now and then, I could feel her presence around on my back and parts of my chest, like she wanted a hug. I may just be crazy though, but for a while it was comforting. I had company.

She never bothered me, nor was a problem. I’ve been merely curious, nothing more, nor less. What was she looking for?

I’ve wondered about a lot of things this week. The analogy of running to walking has still been fresh in my mind. I’ve found a lot of very pivotal answers, and signs that I choose to define as divine rather than coincidence. I want to run because of them. Last night however, was odd.

I went to sleep at nearly three am. It took me a few moments to fall. I usually never remember my dreams, but last night took a different spin.

There’s been talk of a reunion in Parksville for the Click to get back together, catch up, and laugh at the nostalgia. I’ve been interested, certainly, even though my mind is repulsed at the thought of being around specific individuals; those that changed for my worse, or didn’t change at all. There are so many faces I`d recognise. So many faces that would recognize me. Needless to say, I’d fear running into her.

But I dreamed of Parksville once more. I found myself on the beach, looking out to the starry night sky that I used to covet. Four am, and the world was asleep, just like I remember. This is where I would come to hide from the world. Sometimes I would cry. Sometimes I would wonder where my direction in life was leading me. Mostly, I left simply because I couldn’t handle the pain I felt being next to her. I was lying. To her. Mostly to myself.


And I dreamed that I was wandering, and once again hoping for the day’s break. The sunrise, I’ve seen less than a hand can count in my life. But one night I had stuck around a little longer than I was used to, and I was rewarded with calm. Beauty, really. A sunset is beautiful, but only for its convenience. Everyone’s awake to see it. The sunrise however… it’s a joy few share each morning. It’s something you never see. Something you don’t generally forget.

I kept walking. I’m not sure where I went. I could have wandered up and along the boardwalk a little longer. I could have retreated into someone’s house. I just know that I kept moving in my dream, and I didn’t pay attention to my setting.

But I ran into her. And we talked.

She’s appeared in my dreams many times in the past. Never as an act of affection, or friendliness. She’s been a messenger of sorts. She’s the only thing in a dream that’s instigated serious, or meaningful dialogue, which is remarkably contrary to the person she truly is. She’s spoke of feelings to me. She’s taunted me with empty promises and hopeful ventures. And she’s the only person in a dream that I truly speak to, which, once again, is contrary to reality.

She’s appeared before. I know that I hurt her. Perhaps not on the same level or playing field that she hurt me, but I caused her significant grief. I knew her better than any other, even her own family. She said it all but twice, but she didn’t need to say it any more. We both knew it.

When everything fell apart, I left for good. She’s tried in real life to rebuild communication with me, but each time, I’ve broken away. I took her best friend from her along with half the things I owned when I left her home the last time.

And every time she comes to me in a dream, we speak of us. But we speak of different us’s. She speaks of the friendship. She’s never had someone that had someone leave her on hostile measures. Just me. And I think that’s why she’s made movements in the past to bring me back into a circle of friends.

“Why don’t you ever talk to me?” She asked.

I didn’t answer. I remember looking away, hopeful that she’d understand. But she never did.

“You hurt me.”

“I know.”

“Why won’t you be my friend anymore? We knew each other.”

“We were never friends.”

“I thought we were.”

“Maybe for you, then.”

“You never come back here anymore.”

“I know.”


Our conversation continued in this ilk for a little. It almost always does. The only difference is my dreams are faster. We talk like people. We don’t pause for eight minutes, hoping the next bomb doesn’t go off in the other’s face.


“Are you going to come back soon? To see everyone?”

“I think so. I don’t know why though.”

“Will you see me?”

“I don’t want to.”

“Why? We were friends.”

I remember her crying. She was smaller in my dream than in my memory. A few inches too short.

“That’s not how friends work. What happened between us ruined me. We were never friends. Friends are friends. Relationships are friends that grow into something more. Once the relationship dies, there’s no ‘friends’ left. You’re just two people who remember a lot of things. Two strangers.”

“I’m friends with lots of my ex’s. You’re the only one that doesn’t want to be friends afterwards. If I know so much about you, and you know things about me, why can’t we be? Why do you throw that away?”

“Because I’m not willing to cause myself more pain to make you happy. You can never be a friend to me, because I have memories of a different person. You can’t be friends when you remember what it’s like to be something more. It would just be another lie.”


And I woke up. I grabbed my notepad. I wrote everything I could down, in the most chicken scratch writing I’ve written since elementary school. I went back to sleep.

I woke up, and I gave it some thought while I was in the shower. Maybe this is another sign for me. Every time she’s in my dreams, I change the course of the path I walk. This to me feels like more a confirmation of questions I’ve had as of late. I’m glad for it. It makes me more certain about the choices I’ve made. Another step, a little faster, to finally running.

When I got out of the bathroom, something was missing. I couldn’t find the spirit in my apartment, but the feeling of arms around me still lingers. I think she has left. I feel a little down, but now, I feel full claim to my home. Perhaps it’s a territorial thing. I just feel once again that these walls are mine. My sanctuary. My home.

I think I will be going to Parksville soon. There's a sunrise I'd like to see.

Baby Steps

Yesterday, I woke up, and I wondered longer than I usually do, what it would take to be the “me” I know I can be, once again. Not to say I dribble away the mornings of each day wondering my accomplishments and what I should do, but the question felt of the upmost importance to me.

I shirked my volunteer work, and I stayed in bed for an hour or three extra. I drifted off a couple times from fighting the effects of the gravol I had the night before, but in my moments of clarity, I remembered staring at my ceiling, and being unhappy that there were so many bumps in the drywall. I wondered where in my apartment lacked those bumps, and that turbulence, when I was under the impression it was, for the most part, smooth.

But I got up, and I did my usual thing with a few exceptions. I showered, and I didn’t eat. My stomach feels to be a quarter the size it used to be, but I’m certain it’s the pills. None-the-less, it’s not of a great assistance to my general life. I sat on the couch, and I fumbled with my toys while keeping myself lost in thought. I was transfixed on Maslow, and his Hierarchy of Needs.

This theory, as ungrounded and ideological as it is, always keeps me transfixed. It makes a stepping pattern; a basic outline of what one should do with their life next.

Typically, I place myself on the X and look for the Y. So I did.



However, I wasn’t too interested. At least not compared to my regular self, who worships Maslow in some sick, twisted, hatred-kinda way. This time, my attention kept going up the pyramid a little bit more.

Self-Actualization.



I wanted to understand it better than I do already. This prime drive to be more than just you. It’s something… metaphysical. It’s the pursuit for the health of humanity, more than it is the pursuit for the health of the individual. It’s the best we can be. The writer writes because he has to, not because he wants to.

Sheer, untainted being. Interesting, if nothing else.

The pinnacle of human performance. The best we can be.

Of course, I was not truly in the mood to start grasping at understanding how this works. Honestly, I was hardly in the mood to shower, let alone roll the existential meanings of humanity around my brain for a bit.

But my Grandparents came by, and I had an appointment to go to, and I did. We didn’t talk much. Well, they did, but I kept quiet with a headphone in my ear and the occasional mumble of something to their conversation.

Laura sent me a song one day. She thought it fitted my old relationship well, and it did, which is why I started listening to some (or, rather, a few) of his other songs. And I heard a lyric, that got stuck in my head in that irritating way nursery rhymes do.

To want and to try, is the difference why,
Some people will walk, and some run.

And I got inside, and I kept replaying the song. I do that when I get something stuck in my head. I once replayed the Offspring over and over for a month. Not my finest hour.

I got inside, and I can’t rewrite what happened, not for confidentiality reasons, but simply because I wouldn’t do half the words any justice. She flipped my outlook, in a twisted way. I didn’t know I was so permeable.

And afterwards, there was this… awkward kind of silence, that I felt anxious about. I wanted to fill with questions and wonders from a woman obviously more wise then me. I asked her about self-actualization, and I mentioned the song, for some reason. I paralleled runners to people who are self-actualized. Fairly accurate, probably. I asked her what I could do to be that kind of person.

She told me that no one starts out by running. A runner is a person who starts off walking, and slowly picks up the speed, step by step, a little faster each time, until they’re finally running. She leaned back, and said “maybe you’re just warming up. Would it be okay to be in the middle of one of those steps, if you knew that you were getting ready to sprint?”

And I left afterwards, feeling… confident. Annoyed, a little, because Mittens felt tricked. But if that’s what it took, then it was worth it. I got back inside the car, and I went with my Grandparents to finish their chores.

Now, BC Transit has been… oddly good to me. I meet people on buses, it seems. Early this year, I met someone because I caught the wrong bus home, and didn’t want to spend the half hour walking home, when a new bus was coming in ten. There was a nice woman who kept looking at me, and it made me a bit uncomfortable, but flattered.

She came up and asked for the time. That kind of killed the idea in my head. I stuttered and told her.

But she kept looking at me after. She had a very large smile.

I’ve seen her on the community bus twice afterwards, but no verbal conversation applied. She just looked at me, and smiled.

I haven’t seen her since.

Grandma went into the butcher’s and I was finally getting hungry, so I followed. I like the butcher’s because my Grandfather acts odd, going off about how “they’re related” because they have the same last name: only one is Irish, and the other Scottish.

And she’s working there. And it was… odd? I’m uncertain.

"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
--Albert Einstein

I went to Sidney, and met up with a close friend before heading back to my place. It was relaxed, and I liked it. My mind was still thinking a lot. We went to the fair, and I had a lot of fun. I was relaxed, and a bit too passive, but I laughed. A lot. Enough so that we’re pretty sure one of the carnies gave us extra time on one ride because I wouldn’t stop. I don’t know what it is about going up and down over and over again, but I suddenly develop a REALLY childish giggle.

I'm actually terrified of Ferris Wheels.

The fair closed, and I waited around for the bus to come. I gave my friend my coat before I left. When the bus came, I just relaxed in the back corner, trying to really soak in the meanings of the day as I watched porch lights fly past. I listened in on a few grade nines talk about this cute boy and such, and instead of thinking of them as immature… I’m not sure. I just kind of liked that. That childish like, or affection. Interest. Dare I say love, on the most miniscule and broadest of scales. It made me feel good to know that they’d rather talk about the nicer qualities of someone rather then pinpoint the flaws.

I got off the bus and was greeted by the sting of cold air. I didn’t see the cars coming from the other direction. I was almost hit, but I leapt onto the sidewalk. I didn’t think I was durable enough to do so, but after, I felt good.

I looked up to the few stars I could see, and down the dark road to my home. The small sidewalk against the traffic. The fields to approach on my left and my right. This path was my path. I’ve walked it enough to lay claim to it. And I noticed my legs walking a little bit faster than normal. My steps, a little longer in stride, and a little faster in succession.

Things fall into place in life. The way things happened for me, whether I was five or twenty couldn’t have happened any other way, I don’t believe. I feel like I’m not bound to the path I walk, but that there’s a gentle hand on my back, encouraging me to keep to the side, and move toward my home. To keep walking, a little faster with each step.

And I started to run.